Day 37: Life Lessons with K
Thanks for sharing your amazing law of attraction stories with me after yesterday’s post. It truly works. One post of mine that is received positive feedback has been the letter I wrote to my 16 year old self talking to my future self, so I thought, why not do another “lessons learned” post.
Jealousy: This one is so tricky because we feel like we are allowed to look at someone and make judgments (usually negative) about them. I find that this trait so hard to get rid of even now as an adult. There are certain things I talk about to my partner and I know it probably stems from jealousy. I don’t want to be jealous of this person, but that’s probably what I’m feeling - why else would I care about what they do? When I get these thoughts in my head I do my best to realize that a) everyone’s fighting their own battle on the inside and b) I am good enough. Always.
Losing Friends: It’s both simple and complicated to break a friendship. Simple in the sense that it takes mere seconds and complicated in that you feel devastated afterwards. There’s the silent friend breakups (where you just lose touch), or there’s the very vocal ones (where your friend literally posts on a Instagram about hanging out with everyone but you). I’ve lost my fair share of friends (who turned into acquaintances) and to be honest this made me fear making new friends for a while. Why would I want to make new friends if they’ll just leave? It took some time but I came to realize that everyone comes into your life for a reason. Whether that’s for you to help them or them to help you. Them being there for hours, days, weeks, years - still impacts your life and your character. Welcome everyone into your life and if they leave, let them.